Stephen, age 4
Ponoka, Alberta, Canada (1989)
I was awkward as a kid, like being accident prone. Also I was probably the tallest person in my school throughout most of my elementary, middle, and high school years. So I stuck out like a sore thumb. It bothered me, because when you are different when younger, children are cruel.
As early as age 5, I dressed up in my mom's clothes, playing with her makeup.
I didn't see anything wrong with it. My parents didn't see anything wrong with it when I was younger either.
I eventually figured I was too old for that kind of stuff so I stopped. It didn't mean I didn't have fun doing it though. It was always nice.
When I was 13, I started to realize I liked other boys.
I KNEW I was different earlier, but this was when hormones happened.
My parents were far more accepting of the things I did than I give them credit for. My dad was always saying things like "F*g this" or "Queer that" and I guess that's what happens when you are raised Catholic. He just didn’t like gays.
But when I told him I was gay, he seemed to change his whole perspective, which is a good thing. My mom always said, "It's your life. Do what you want with it."
After suffering through a couple years of depression after coming out, I look back on my picture and think "I'm almost back to being that kid again. Not caring. Just happy." And I really am. It's a long process though.
Words of advice to all my fellow LGBTQ people:
Go into your childhood photos. Find a picture of you looking happy, and tell yourself that you will be that happy again. That has worked wonders for me
Stephen's first, famous-person same sex crush:
Go into your childhood photos. Find a picture of you looking happy, and tell yourself that you will be that happy again. That has worked wonders for me
Stephen's first, famous-person same sex crush:
Ryan Gosling (in "Breaker High" and "Young Hercules")