August 02, 2011


Jim, age 3
West Orange, NJ (1985)

This picture was taken shortly after my uncle's wedding. You'll be shocked to know, that a few years later I was throwing Wonder Woman themed birthday parties and telling my parents, "When I grow up, I want to be a mommy."

Needless to say, when I did come out 17 years later, everyone's reaction was not
"How did we not know?!" - but rather a collective, "Finally!"

It's not always rainbows and lollipops being gay, but it has gotten so much better.
Even if I'm not a mommy ... yet.

And most nights, you'll find me with family and friends in this exact same pose.
Mini Twisty Swirl Candy Lollipops (1 dz)Family Secrets: Gay Sons--A Mother's Story (Haworth Gay & Lesbian Studies)50 Fabulous Gay-Friendly Places to Live [With Interactive CD]Wonder Woman - Risque Divas Birthday Greeting Card

Also check out "My First Gay Crush Blog"


the island guy said...

haha that was cute

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Theaterdog said...

"in the exact same pose." I fell out of my chair on that one.
Beyond cute.
Thanks to Paul and all these beautiful people who contribute to this site, I am filled with pride, lots of it.

bravo all