Eric, age 12
Lincoln, Illinois (1972)
I was raised on a pig farm. This picture was taken at my 12th birthday party, at a weenie roast we held in the corn crib. When I wasn't singing along to Jesus Christ Superstar, I was listening to Alice Cooper, Uriah Heep, and Frank Zappa.
|"The queerest farm boy, ever"|
My idol was Graham Kerr on "The Galloping Gourmet" TV show. I think for my class picture this year I had a neckerchief tied to the side.
At 12 I was already 6ft tall, so my innate flamboyance was hard to miss.
I felt like a complete alien, and 6 months after this photo was taken, I tried to kill myself. I failed, struggled through high school, and escaped to Chicago in 1979.
I met my current husband of 22 years in 1989, and in 1995 we adopted our daughter, who just turned 16.
I wish I could go back in time and whisper into this desperately unhappy boy's ear, to let him know how much love and joy he's going to experience in his life.
Eric's first, famous-person same sex crushes:
Race Bannon ("The Adventures of Jonny Quest")
Bill Bixby (on "The Courtship of Eddie’s Father")
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